做你背后的港湾(下)

Be your sanctuary forever (Ⅱ)

前情回顾:即将毕业的大四学生小朱是一名男同性恋,一次偶然的机会,他被检测出感染了艾滋病病毒。已经签下的工作机会可能会因此丢失,人生的规划和梦想也可能会就此破灭。无法接受这一事实的小朱选择用割腕自杀的方式来结束这一切,在生命一点一滴流逝的过程中,他想到了残疾的母亲和轻度智障的姐姐,如果自己不在了,她们该如何生活下去?重新燃起求生信念的小朱在东十一道巷聚会点义工的帮助下保住了性命。接下来的路小朱该何去何从?《做你背后的港湾(下)》为您继续讲述小朱的故事。

Previously, Zhu, a senior student in one university of Xi’an, is a male homosexuality. He was tested positive for the AIDS virus by chance. He could not accept this reality and decided to suicide. However, he realized that he cannot let go his mom, his sister and the whole family. Then, he saved his life with the help of the lay workers of the East 11th Lane Gathering Point.

 

从这之后,聚会点的义工开始对小朱的身体和精神状况进行持续跟进。例如,定期帮助他检测体内的CD4细胞计数和病毒载量,由医生根据检测结果和他的身体情况综合考虑,选择最佳的治疗时机。小朱的CD4细胞计数是600多,按照国际标准,他还没到用药期。但是为了降低自己传染他人的几率,他选择开始服药。服药期间,HIV病毒在药物的控制下,会隐藏在某些器官中,一旦药物停止作用,病毒就会迅速反弹。根据每个人不同的体质,也会有不同程度的副作用。小朱常年坚持健身,身体素质一直不错,他说自己服药后的副作用并不明显。

Since that, the gathering point began to follow up Zhu about his physical and mental condition. For example, the gathering point helped test the CD4 value and viral load of Zhu regularly. The CD4 value of Zhu was over 600, according the standard, he could choose not to take medicine. However, considering not increasing the risk of spreading the virus to other people, he chose to take the medicine. Because of the different body condition, the medicine might have different side effects. And, the medicine compliance is very important. If Zhu stops using the medicine, the restrained virus would increase rapidly. So far, as Zhu said, the side effect on him is not obvious.

 

 

在精神方面,聚会点的义工经常为小朱提供一些心理和情绪上的疏导,听他诉说心中的烦恼和苦闷,了解他对于被感染的想法和对未来生活的设想,帮助他调适心态来面对今后的生活。对于小朱最关心的工作问题,聚会点的义工告诉他,医院有义务为他被感染艾滋病毒一事保密,这让小朱大大的松了一口气。几个月后,义工和小朱自己都明显感觉到了他的变化,身体状况保持的很好,脸上的笑容也多了起来,之前那个阳光的小朱又回来了。

On the mental aspect, the lay worker offered following-up psychological guidance for Zhu, frequently listening to his thinking and learning his ideas on the infection and the assumption of future life. For the employment, they comforted him that the hospital is not allowed to tell the company about the infection, which made Zhu relieved a lot. After several months, both the lay workers and Zhu himself found that he has back to the former status of life.

 

而对于未来,小朱希望能够顺利进入所签公司工作,努力赚钱,帮助妈妈和姐姐;他也渴望能像正常人一样拥有健康的家庭生活,希望能够找到一个长久的伴侣,尽管这在同性恋的圈子里是一件几率很小的事情。聚会点的义工们都为小朱送上了自己的祝福,最重要的是他们告诉小朱,无论今后遇到什么样的困难,一定要记得东十一道巷聚会点永远都是他背后的港湾。

For the future life, Zhu hoped to find a long-term partner, though it is very hard to realize in the male homosexuality group. Lay workers gave their good wish to Zhu, and the most important thing was that they told Zhu to remember the East 11th Lane Gathering Point, when he faces any of difficulty, he can have a place to turn to.

 

(The End)

 

 

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